I suppose my lesson is learned. Twitter may be the latest, but it’s not in any way the greatest. While the social networking service is being pitched as the best way to communicate quickly with your buddies, I’ve decided what really exists is a bunch of talk with no one listening.
Yes, I have a Twitter account. In fact, there’s one for me and one for that other blog. Both have around 60 followers – people who supposedly read what I’ve typed or the RSS feed from the blogs. While some of those followers are strangers, others have turned in to real acquaintances. These are people with whom I’ve communicated more than once a week.
Yesterday I tweeted the rotten news that my father’s prostate cancer has been discovered in his back. While the doctor gives chemo an 80% chance of taking care of the disease, I asked for prayers. Insurance I called it.
In all those followers, only one acknowledged the news. We had other business, and he sent the well wishes in a reply.
Well, that’s it. I really don’t need to be taught twice. I’ll keep the name up for blog feed, but I won’t give a rat’s furry backside about all that stuff people are saying about themselves. I won’t even bother to open the program.
I suppose it shouldn’t surprise me, but it did. I’ve decided not to take it personally, but rather chalk it up to a society that’s making hundreds or even thousands of connections without making any at all.
I know how you feel Cindy. Sometimes, I find it tough to come into the Twitter feed late in the day after work.
I tend to lurk a bit more now.
There’s always a spot for you at Drinking Right when you want to join us
I’m sorry to hear the news about your father’s prostate cancer. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I read somewhere recently that Twitter is “out for 2010″ as a trend. I believe you’re right about society making many connections and none at all. There is not an opportunity for any depth in social networking relationships.